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Well
I thought it was about time I reviewed an older film for a change, and I saw this quite recently. It was a film Id heard a lot about, and apparently the ending to Sleepless in Seattle borrowed heavily from it (my mother-in-law loves that film, I only think its slightly better than OK). Ive always tended to enjoy films with Cary Grant in (apart from North by Northwest), especially his ability to deliver complex wordplay at breakneck speeds without faltering. And thats another reason I often like older films because of the lack of special effects, they tend to have infinitely better dialogue, something sadly missing in the majority of todays films.
Okay, get on with it
Now that Ive bored you rigid with my diatribe, Ill begin the review proper. An Affair to Remember is about a man and woman who meet while on a cruise, both engaged to be married, Grant soon after the cruise ends, the woman (Deborah Kerr) has been engaged for years, to be married sometime never / whenever. Grant is a notorious playboy about to be tamed / marrying for money (shes a millionaire), depending on your point of view. The film leads you to the conclusion that its the latter while people in the film seem to think its the first.
What passes for the plot
They meet, fall in love, and then lots of other improbable events lead to the top of the Empire States building, where the lovers are supposed to meet on a particular date. And thats the first major problem with the movie its just all rather implausible. Hardly anything that happens is more than remotely believable, and its not done in enough of a comedy / escapist style for this to be forgivable.
And it gets worse
The second problem (after having said that dialogue is usually far better in older films) is the dialogue. It ranges from the bland to the banal, and there is none of the express train delivery of long witticisms by Grant that work so well in many of his other films. In fact, Grant himself comes across as puzzled at his own lines half the time theyre just so terribly lame. His performance throughout is stilted whether it was just a bad day at the office for him or because the character and situations he was playing were so implausible, I dont know. Kerr fares little better, though she does at least get to show a little sarcasm. The peripheral characters in the film are transparent and one-dimensional, even characters who have a relatively large part in the film, such as Grants mother. The fact that Kerrs original love interest is so completely placid in the face of losing someone who is apparently the love of his life, even upon meeting his replacement, is scarcely believable.
Yawn
The special effects, such as there were, are not impressive even bearing in mind when the film was made. The scenes on the ship were particularly laughable. There is some humour that manages to push itself through, but the laughs are pitifully few and far between. The plot was just too unlikely to produce any real tension or emotional response in the viewer.
Partially saving grace
I was hugely disappointed with most of this film; however, it does improve considerably in the final twenty minutes, despite still being hampered by some of the same problems of the rest of the film. This does at least save this film from the ignominy of a 1-star rating. There are moments that are memorable, but the film as a whole is not or at least, not for the right reasons.
Sadly, this affair is one to forget, not remember.
Better romantic comedies, IMHO (and not just because they're more modern):
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